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Lonely individuals tend to think and talk in an unusual way, study finds

> Lonelier individuals were also more likely to use unusual language when describing well-known celebrities and to describe them in ways that were not typical for their group.

How is that surprising? If they are lonely, they are not part of the group and intergroup communication (including shared values, opinions, gossip etc).

The text fails to define "unusual" in a meaningful way other than "not part of the majority". It's like saying "we found that the minority tends to vote differently than the majority".

2 hours agogrvbck

Very unsurprising but perhaps still valid research that needs to be done to be known. A better conclusion might have been: increasing socialisation increases homogeneity of language use.

a minute agoadammarples

Indeed, I struggle to even imagine what "use unusual language when describing well-known celebrities" even means! Maybe like using "musician" rather than "artist" or some other combination?

edit: Ok, I've read through the paper, and still have no idea. Apparently the responses to questions were compared as semantic vectors using cosine similarity in Google’s Universal Sentence Encoder space. Or something lol.

34 minutes agogilleain

"hello fellow Taylor Swift fans"

14 minutes agonielsole

Read the whole article wondering how lonely people think differently.

But I now understand that it is just that: different. They do not conform to what the norm thinks.

Seen in that light: lonely people are lonely because they are weird. Right. Good to know.

4 hours agoisaacfrond

I was a standup comedian in the 1980s and was occasionally asked why “my people” were so funny, and it’s odd because there are a lot of things that are funny about us, but not the real answer to this one. We had to be, for thousands of years, or we died. If we had humorless dumb ones (and we do, but not as many, again, because of what happened to them, as well as quite a number of our best) they didn’t do as well.

I was also a clinical psychologist for a few years, and could say more on this, but some other time.

Jewish humor, gay humor, autistic humor… they’re all more similar than they are different. You learn, from atypical experience, to see everything one degree off and you have a story that people will listen to and eventually they might even like you. You see things three degrees off and you shut up so no one else knows. You get six degrees off and even you don’t know, but everyone else does.

an hour agozusammen

As they say, tragedy (or alternatively, adversity) plus time equals comedy.

an hour agoviciousvoxel

Lonely people are also weird because they are lonely (and don't get the calibration from human interaction).

3 hours ago127

The article does not claim this nor support the claim. It merely says that loneliness is associated with being "weird". No causality.

3 hours agokaffekaka

It's possible to reverse this and infer the more mainstream your thoughts of these celebrities, the more popular you are / will be.

3 hours agoOarch

Well, exactly. Parents poster is pointing out that the cause is ambiguous. Actually, technically, they are attributing causality to the opposite direction, but in practice, I'd say it gets the point across.

2 hours agodarkerside

My intuition is that it goes both ways and it's a feedback loop/downward spiral.

43 minutes agoviciousvoxel

So they tested disconnected individuals against connected individuals in the perception of socially constructed objects (celebrities). And they found that people who don't socialise much don't share that socially constructed perception. What else did they expect? Seems quite obvious.

2 hours agothrow310822

> The second study was an online survey conducted with 923 Amazon Mechanical Turk workers, whose average age was 40 years.

So psychology is now the study of mice, college freshman, and mechanical Turks? I have not seen this before.

an hour agole-mark

Interesting premise but did this article _feel_ off to anyone else? Maybe it was me , but did it seem a bit redundant while also not saying a whole lot?

an hour agocjaackie

Feels like fancy neuroimaging being used to scientifically justify excluding people who don't conform to mainstream social norms. Classic case of using tech to medicalize being different. Also kind of makes sense from an evolutionary psych perspective - groups have always tried to identify and push out "others" for survival. But maybe in 2024 we can do better than using million-dollar brain scanners to shame people who see the world (oh sorry, “famous” people) differently?

an hour agokordlessagain

Do you guys know who the most popular artists of our time are?

Reading this article and its mention of celebrities I was like "Who are today's celebrities anyhow?"? And typed

    most popular artists 2024
into Google. It came back with:

    Taylor Swift
    The Weeknd
    Lady Gaga
    Drake
    Karol G
    Bruno Mars
    Beyoncé
    Eminem
    Charli XCX
    Harry Styles
I have heard 8 of the 10 names before. Never heard about "Karol G" and "Charli XCX".

I can only think of one song performed by one of them: "Paparazzi" by Lady Gaga.

Does that make me very disconnected with today's culture?

an hour agoTekMol

These artists are definitely popular, but I doubt they are the most popular. The list doesn't fully match up with the most streamed artists list on Spotify, for example.

2 minutes agoFraaaank

I've heard of 7/10; I couldn't name one work of art by any of them except for Lady Gaga and Eminem. Pop culture is terrible and I avoid it as much as possible. I'm lonely btw. ;)

8 minutes agoelpocko

Meanwhile I don’t listen to anyone on that list except for Charli XCX because I arrived at her music from a rave/hyperpop background and then became a stan with her last album Crash in 2022.

I was tired of BRAT though about 2 weeks after release because I listened to the teasers so much… then it blew up and even attached itself to VP Harris…

an hour agomikrl

There are many cultures. You’re on HN, so my guess is you’re connected with today’s hacker culture. I’ve heard of 6 of those names, but can’t name any song from any of them. It just means I have my own interests.

an hour agochristophilus

I don’t listen to 8/10 of these musicians, but I’ve heard of all of them except for Karol G. So yeah; I’d say you are very disconnected.

an hour agokeiferski

I thought they were saying they _had_ heard of 8 in 10? Strangely Karol G was also new to me. I'll resist searching for the name - I enjoy not knowing things sometimes.

28 minutes agogilleain

People are strange when you’re a stranger.

2 hours agoportaouflop

> Loneliness corresponded with idiosyncratic [unusual, unique] neural representations of celebrities as well as more idiosyncratic communication about celebrities

must be the best argument to date for being more lonely.

3 hours agodinkblam

Could mean the opposite of what you might think. I imagine the mean perception of Zuck is weirdo, Bieber is 'no clue, I'm not a teen girl' and so on.

2 hours agoANewFormation

People who don't interact a lot with other people. Hrrm.

It would be really weird if they thought and talked in accordance with the current social pablum.

an hour agomapt

So many words used to convey so little meaning, what a waste of time. How do they think differently about celebrities, why, and is it a bad thing in and of itself?

16 minutes agothrance

I'm disgusted that they took celebrity gossip as reference point for healthy social behavior.

29 minutes agoblueflow

I don't think the article says that, does it?

22 minutes agocriddell

This is a bullshit study. It is entirely based on trying to confirm a priori assumptions about ”lonely” people, who are seen by authors as pathologically abnormal.

an hour agocluckindan

> Interestingly, the study also revealed a particularly strong consensus among participants regarding the neural representations of Justin Bieber compared to the other four celebrities.

is this academic speak for “yeah…… that guy…… nope.”?